Glaring Signs Your Spouse is Leading a Double Life
How certain can you be that your spouse is faithful? There might be times when you notice your spouse is not the same person. They may think they are keeping their secret double life hidden from you, however, without knowing it, they are telling you all about it. Find out what signs of a cheating spouse you should look for.
There is nothing better than a combination of guilt and paranoia to uncover the double life of your cheating spouse. The cheater is going to feel some degree of guilt for being unfaithful and they may sense you know something. This is where paranoia steps in. If you notice your spouse grabbing the bills before you, running to answer the phone, or questioning your every move, you could have a cheater on your hands. They will be in a heightened alert mode, worried they cover all their actions.
First impressions are everything. If your spouse is leading a double life, they will want to do whatever it takes to impress their new lover. Changes you might see include:
New wardrobe or clothing style
Different cologne/perfume
Changes to personal hygeine
A new exercise regime
Most people usually do not like change. If you notice your spouse is sporting a new look or "scent", you might have a cheating spouse.
For a variety of reasons, a couple may have intimacy issues. Stress or having something on your mind can affect the closeness between two people. In your case, your spouse might be getting their needed intimacy from their new lover. If they are getting their "fill" elsewhere, you will notice they spend less close time with you. Their actions might include being tired, having extra work to do that keeps them up late or just falling asleep on the couch watching television. If you are feeling alone in your relationship, there is probably a reason.